苂木

Contract is supposedly mutually beneficial to both sides and agreed upon.
When used properly, it protects both parties from unforeseen loss due to
misunderstanding or misconduct. Contract by itself is ...
lufu 发表于 15-9-2009 09:25

that's the point.
and that's why i hate contract, offer, acceptance, ec, bound, reside, damages, cycle by cycle, it's all human misconduct, their laziness and greed
i am trapped on this disgusting misdeed

苂木

Nothing to worry about. :) Life will go on and you learned a good lesson that you will benefit for a long time.

I once was cheated by a nice, kind and seemingly so respectful 76 year old man, for $35 ...
lufu 发表于 15-9-2009 09:31

mentally still?
yes, human cannot avoid this

the point is i lost trust from my friends, classmates which affect me most

lufu

不要啦。。老师。。
合同使用妥当是可以保护你的利益的。。
就像这次。。
如果你有一纸公平的签字画押的合同在手。
讨回定金应该是有胜算的啊。。

苂木

the point is: how i say to my friends?say i got cheated ,and you all?
they will doubt my ability and will not trust me like  before

lufu

If they know you were cheated by this guy , which they knew already anyway,
for that much money, they should not fault you.
And if they do, they are not true friends anyway in the first place. In which
case, if I were you I will simply pay back their loss, and move on ...

mentally still?
yes, human cannot avoid this

the point is i lost trust from my friends, classmates which affect me most
苂木 发表于 15-9-2009 09:33

lufu

Nobody is perfect - everyone makes mistake. Don't force yourself too much.

Besafe

Smile..smile..

苂木

the thing is
the process proceed to insult my ability
which is very critical for me to further continue my study

苂木

Oh dear....
Dun blame yourself for it.
I am sure your friends won't blame you also.
You are a victim yourself.
Cheer up !!!

The issue of protection of private students was discussed at Parliament y ...
Besafe 发表于 15-9-2009 09:37

thx
she actually blames me, the feeling sucks
this case not suite me..not private students..

Besafe

smile.. smile